Graves aren’t scary
Matthew 27:52-53
52 And the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose,
53 And came out of the graves after his resurrection, and went into the holy city, and appeared unto many.
Graves are not permanent. In fact nothing is permanent on this plant. The children who live in the garbage dump are not in graves. I even helped rescue a kid who lived in a tomb at a cemetery. He lied there but it wasn’t a grave. Alcoholism, prostitution, drug addiction, and any other vile thing you can come up with isn’t a permanent grave.
There are only things that are permanent. Heaven and hell. The rest, even if you live to120 years, in just a flicker. I watched a young girl die a horrible death. It took her 8 years of agony to die. I asked God why He took so long. He showed me that compared to eternity it wasn’t very long at all.
Babies, families, careers, money, fame, bad luck, misery, shame are all just diversions along the way. The only thing in this life that matters is eternity, are you really saved?
John 3:3
3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God